SHABBAT more than resting

2^nd day of Iyar, 5770.

Most people feel that Shabbat was given as a day of rest for the tired worker.

However, Shabbat is much more than a mere day of rest. The verb “Shabat” does not mean “to rest” but “to pause”,“ to stop”. Shabbat is not the day where we rest to gather energy for next week work, Shabbat is precisely the GOAL of all our work. Shabbat is the END not the MEANS of our weekly endeavors.

Seeing Shabbat as a day of rest would presuppose that we are merely a tool in a society dedicated exclusively to industry and profit. We believe in working and in making money, but Shabbat reminds us of our true goals: For one day a week we willingly free ourselves from job, gardening, cooking, working, writing, etc, from every mundane distraction or material worries and dedicate to our spiritual growth: In Shabbat we spend hours praying to God, getting closer to Him, listening and studying His Torah and doing plenty of Mitzvoth (think about Kiddush, Bircat haMazon, Seudot Shabbat, Berakhot, etc) with our families in an atmosphere of peace and enjoyment.

Shabbat is the day that we stop from working not in order to become better workers the following week but to dedicate fully to serve God and strengthen the most important relationship in our lives.

Shabbat Shalom!

HADLAKAT NEROT: 7:18 PM

LASHON HARA: our daily tests

1st of Iyar, 5770. (Rosh Chodesh Iyar).

TODAY IS THE 16th DAY OF OMER (2 weeks, 2 days)

Consider the following situation: You are at a wedding reception and some people at your table begin denigrating someone. One person turns to you and says, "Didn't you go to school with him? Was he always this way?"
Now you are faced with a difficult test. Will you attempt to change the topic, or do you succumb and add your piece of Lashon haRa to the conversation?
A difficult test? Perhaps. But it will surely be made easier if you give thought to the following advice aim. Take stock of what you are about to do. If you remain strong and refuse to speak Lashon haRa, there may be people who will consider you self-righteous— something that anyone would want to avoid. On the other hand, if you fail and speak Lashon haRa, you will have much more to deal with, for you will face embarrassment in the World of Truth, before the King of all Kings, God Almighty.

The Chofetz Chaim quotes the teaching of our Sages: "Better to be considered a fool your entire life than to have haShem Almighty have you as a rasha (wicked person) for even a moment."
Moreover: With time and consistency –if a person closes his mouth refraining from participating in collective Lashon haRa- he might even influence and inspire his peers to act in the right way not with lecturing words but with his own good example.


Adapted from Chofetz Chaim: A daily companion.

What happens if one accidentally cooked a milk food on a meat pot?

30th of Nisan, 5770, ROSH CHODESH

Today is the 15tyhn day of the Omer (2 weeks,1 day)

If accidentally one cooked a milk food in a meat cookware sometimes the food is prohibited and sometimes is permitted.

If one for example fried a cheese omelet in a meat pan.

Case 1: if the pan was not clean and it had some visible leftover of meat, even though those were small leftovers, like meat fat etc, the omelet is forbidden because cheese got mixed with meat.

Case 2: if one fried the cheese omelet in a completely clean meat pan that was used with meat during the last 24 hours, the cheese omelet is forbidden because it absorbed the meat particles on the pan's walls.

Case 3: If the meat pan was not used with meat for the last 24 hours, and one accidentally made a cheese omelet in that pan, then the omelet is permitted. Because the Halakha considers that after 24 hours the meat particles absorbed in the pan's walls are decomposed (noten taam lifgam) and they are not considered meat anymore.

As for the cookware, in all cases, it requires Hag’ala (immersion in boiling water) or Libbun (firing) depending on the type of utensil. It will be explained BH in following Halakhot.